MEETUP VIDEO CONFERENCE: Why are NTs blamed for trying to help?
An International Support Group facilitated by Dr. Marshack. This Video Conference is only for members of Meetup. Click here for membership details and to register for this call.
MEETUP VIDEO CONFERENCE: Why are NTs blamed for trying to help?
Monday, May 18th at 12:00 pm Pacific Time
Putting aside that NTs can slip into codependency, there is the very real problem of being blamed for nothing more than offering help to our ASD family member. We might make a casual observation or offer an innocent suggestion in passing. All of a sudden we are in the midst of an argument, where we are blamed for being super critical. Even, when we try to back down from the argument, we are accused of lying. It can be a nightmare.
There are two things I want you to learn from this video conference. First, it’s vital that you take back your confidence and never allow yourself to be blamed for trying to help. Second, let’s discuss the “Aspie” logic that ensnares us in this blame game — and how to put an end to this abuse.
The instructions for the Zoom call will be emailed to participants, once you have paid for the call. This call is for Meetup members and members of ASPERGER SYNDROME & Relationships (as long as you are also a member of Meetup). The fee is $18.95.
Pleased make sure you have a quiet, uninterrupted space to call in. Instructions on how to download Zoom can be found here: https://www.meetup.com/Asperger-Syndrome-Partners-Family-of-Adults-with-ASD/pages/19672892/Video_Conference_Meeting_Instructions/
Meeting ID and password for each video conference will be emailed. Please check your Meetup settings to make sure you are able to receive emails.