Category: Podcasts

What happens when a nervous system hits its breaking point, and no one knows how to help?

In this episode, we’re naming what so many silently endure: the “brain on fire” experience.

Whether it’s misdiagnosed as mental illness or dismissed altogether, this kind of neurological collapse is real—and often deeply misunderstood, especially in neurodivergent adults.

We’ll talk about:

• Autistic burnout vs. mental illness
• The emotional cost of being unsupported
• What healing actually requires

If you or someone you love has ever struggled to find words for what’s happening inside, this conversation is for you.

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1:12 – Exploring Brain on Fire
1:38 – My Mother’s Breakdown Experience
1:53 – A Nervous Breakdown or Neurological Collapse
2:29 – The Impact of Childhood Trauma
3:04 – A Compassionate Encounter
3:27 – The Consequences of Treatment
3:45 – Life Overwhelmed by Stress
3:59 – Defining Brain on Fire
4:18 – Understanding Autistic Burnout
4:31 – Beyond Mental Illness
4:46 – The Sensory Overload Explained
5:01 – Experiences of Neurodiverse Individuals
5:24 – Tools for Understanding the Brain
5:34 – The Relationship That Could Have Been
5:49 – Compassion for Neurodiverse Adults
6:09 – Channeling Love and Understanding
6:19 – A Call for Awareness and Support
6:30 – Practical Solutions for Brain on Fire
6:50 – Creating Supportive Environments
7:10 – Addressing the Neurological Perspective
7:23 – Invitation to Continue the Conversation
7:47 – Key Questions for the After Party
8:20 – Encouragement to Share Your Story

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What happens when rules replace real connection?

In this episode, we explore how rigid, transactional thinking can quietly unravel the emotional fabric of our relationships and communities, especially in neurodivergent partnerships.

Together, we’ll look at the lived experience behind rule-based logic and why it often leads to misunderstanding, frustration, and emotional disconnection.

If you’ve ever felt unseen in a relationship or unsure how to bridge the emotional divide, this conversation is for you. Let’s untangle the patterns and find our way back to true connection.

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1:31 – Understanding Rule-Based Thinking
1:58 – Importance of Emotional Engagement
2:18 – Patterns of Dysfunction in Relationships
2:49 – Rigid Rule Enforcement Versus Common Sense
3:00 – Consequences of Transactional Thinking
3:55 – Emotional Disconnects in Partnerships
4:31 – Empathy Dysfunction Explained
5:15 – Why Responsibility is Difficult to Accept
6:46 – Misunderstanding Assertiveness as Aggression
7:40 – Emotional Nuance and Communication Challenges
8:07 – Bridging the Trust Gap in Relationships
8:40 – Invitation to the Podcast After Party
9:01 – Concluding Thoughts and Membership Options

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Are you truly connected to the world around you, or just passing through?

In this episode, we explore the difference between having and belonging, owning a breathtaking view versus truly experiencing the land beneath your feet. Through personal stories of life on the Oregon coast, we’ll unpack what it means to engage with nature, not just admire it from a distance.

But this isn’t just about the great outdoors, it’s about relationships, too. How often do we assume that being near someone means we’re connected to them? Neurodivergent partnerships, in particular, highlight the gap between presence and participation.

Join me as we dive into what it really means to belong—to a place, to a relationship, and to ourselves.

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2:33 – Understanding The View Versus The Experience
2:50 – Observing Coastal Living
3:05 – Why Do People Move to Nature
3:23 – Experiencing Life Outdoors
3:46 – The Importance of Engagement
4:22 – A Lesson from Hawaii
4:58 – Nature as a Commodity
5:12 – The Idea of Possession Versus Belonging
5:54 – Connection Beyond Ownership
6:44 – The Need for Participation
7:22 – Reflecting on Dreams and Belonging
8:17 – Final Thoughts and Questions for Reflection

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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What does it mean to be an Empathic Alpha Woman? How can deep empathy shape not just our leadership style, but our entire sense of self?

In this episode, I’m exploring the intersection of strength and sensitivity, diving into the power of Radiant Empathy – a bold, intuitive leadership style that redefines what it means to be strong. We’ll discuss:

✨ The connection between empathy and effective leadership
✨ The courage it takes to fully embrace your true self
✨ Life lessons from navigating challenges with empathy

Join me for a thought-provoking conversation on leading with heart, standing in your power, and owning your unique strength.

It’s time to step into your Radiant Empathy.

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1:03 – Discover What Radiant Empathy Means
1:54 – Recognize Your Alpha Identity
2:36 – Personal Story of Empathy in Action
3:19 – How to Handle Aggressive Situations
4:27 – Confronting Challenges with Confidence
5:34 – Understanding Animal Reactions to Leadership
6:42 – Lessons Learned from Animal Encounters
7:15 – Facing Down Fears for Empowerment
8:21 – Navigating Human Dynamics with Empathy
9:45 – Overcoming Professional Obstacles
11:04 – The Role of Empathy in Leadership
11:59 – Strength and Empathy: A Powerful Combination
13:31 – Building a Supportive Community

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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Have you ever felt an unshakable connection to a place – like the land itself was calling you home? I know I have.

In this episode, I’m reflecting on the deep, personal ways nature has shaped my sense of belonging.

From the rugged beauty of Cape Perpetua to the breathtaking landscapes of Glacier National Park, I’ll share stories of rediscovery and resilience. But what happens when the people closest to us don’t see these places the same way?

We’ll explore the tension between NeuroTypical and NeuroDiverse perspectives on nature—and how our environments can speak to us in ways that words sometimes can’t.

Join me for a heartfelt conversation about finding home, trusting our instincts, and embracing the places that remind us who we truly are.

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1:19 – Rediscovering Yourself Through Nature
1:57 – Finding Belonging in Unshared Experiences
2:30 – The Earth Is My Home
2:38 – Discovering Cape Perpetua
3:09 – Memories of Glacier National Park
3:39 – Sharing Beauty with Loved Ones
4:19 – Navigating Different Perspectives on Nature
5:20 – Moving to Oregon for Connection
5:54 – Trusting Your Intuition About Places
6:44 – The Land Calling You Home
7:43 – Invitation to Share and Connect
7:59 – Reflecting on Places that Shape Us

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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Ever feel like you’re speaking a different language in your own relationship? You’re not the only one.

In this episode, we’re diving into the complexities of NeuroDivergent dynamics – how they shape everyday interactions, challenge our assumptions, and push us to rethink communication.

Through a real-life story, we’ll explore what happens when perspectives don’t quite align, why setting boundaries is essential (but tricky), and how small moments of understanding can make all the difference.

If you’ve ever struggled to connect with someone who sees the world differently, this conversation is for you. Let’s break down the barriers, build a little more empathy, and navigate these relationships with clarity and confidence.

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1:04 – Join the Live After Party Discussion
1:58 – Understanding Neurodivergent Dynamics
2:16 – Story of My Neighbor David
2:35 – First Interaction with David
2:48 – David’s Request to Top Trees
3:24 – Follow Up from David
3:48 – Encounter with the Landscaper
4:41 – Viewing the Panoramic View
4:56 – Declining David’s Request Again
5:18 – David Proposes a Compromise
6:34 – The True Meaning of Compromise
6:46 – Setting Boundaries in Interactions
7:31 – Join Our Community for Support

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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Let’s uncover the hidden layers of Hawaii’s culture and how commercialization has reshaped its traditions.

In this episode, we dive into the personal journey of reconnecting with lost heritage – from the meaning behind puka shell necklaces to the evolution of local luaus.

What happens when authentic cultural practices get replaced by tourist-friendly versions? And how do personal memories intertwine with a history that’s slowly slipping away?

Let’s explore what’s real, what’s been reimagined, and what still lingers beneath the surface.

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1:21 – Understanding the Journey of Rediscovery
2:11 – Importance of Belonging in Relationships
2:40 – Searching for Connection in Hawaii
4:09 – Realizing Hawaii’s Sweetened Narrative
4:32 – Commercialization of Little Traditions
5:10 – Finding a Necklace in a Grocery Store
5:25 – Reflections on Traditional Luaus
6:11 – Disconnection from Authentic Hawaiian Culture
6:54 – Lost Meaning of Puka Shell Necklaces
7:52 – Value of Treasured Items
8:50 – Finding Real Puka Shells
9:33 – The Hidden Hawaii of the Past

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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In this episode, we’ll dive into the contrasting experiences of a mother and her NeuroDiverse daughter during a trip to Hawaii.

What begins as an exciting adventure unfolds into a journey of understanding, as they navigate the challenges of differing perspectives, emotions, and reactions.

Through personal reflection, we’ll explore the complexities of NeuroDiverse relationships, the struggle to bridge communication gaps, and the importance of embracing each other’s realities.

Join us as we unpack the lessons learned, the moments of connection, and the ways we can foster deeper empathy in our closest relationships.

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1:05 – Understanding My Journey in Hawaii
2:35 – The Reality of Bianca’s Experience
3:21 – An Overwhelming First Day
4:19 – The Struggle with Meltdowns
5:01 – Accepting Different Perspectives
5:53 – Embracing Our Unique Worlds
7:25 – Invitation to Reflect on Differences

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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Relationships thrive on connection—but what happens when two people experience the world in fundamentally different ways?

In this insightful discussion, we’ll explore the unique dynamics of NeuroDivergent relationships, uncovering how NeuroTypical and NeuroDiverse individuals process emotions, communicate, and navigate connections.

You’ll gain a deeper understanding of why misunderstandings happen, how empathy plays a crucial role, and why some partners may feel “invisible” in their relationship. Most importantly, we’ll discuss ways to validate each other’s experiences and adapt to emotional needs, creating stronger, more meaningful connections.

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1:21 – Why Your Autistic Partner Is Different
2:50 – The Role of Empathy in Relationships
4:44 – Recognizing Different Communication Styles
6:12 – Finding Support Outside Your Relationship
7:37 – The Concept of Shared Meaning
9:18 – Embracing Relationship Dynamics
10:11 – Task vs. Interpersonal Orientation
11:14 – Realizing Mutual Differences
11:28 – Importance of Acknowledgment and Connection
12:51 – Final Thoughts on Neurodiversity

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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Empathy is the key to bridging the gap in NeuroDiverse and NeuroTypical relationships—but what happens when empathy itself feels out of sync?

In this insightful session, we explore empathy dysfunction and its impact on communication and connection. You’ll discover the Empathy Triad—empathy, context, and conversation—and how these elements shape interactions.

We’ll also introduce the 7-Step Interface Protocol, a practical framework designed to help couples navigate their differences with understanding and clarity.

Whether you’re on the Autism spectrum, a highly empathic individual (EMD Five), or simply looking to strengthen your relationships, this session offers valuable tools to embrace courage, set healthy boundaries, and foster deeper connections.

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0:43 – Understanding Empathy Dysfunction
1:48 – Joining the After Party Discussion
2:15 – Exploring the Empathy Triad
2:46 – Addressing Controversies in Empathy
3:47 – Defining Empathy Engaged
4:45 – Introducing the Seven-Step Interface Protocol
5:13 – Building Resilience in Relationships
5:41 – Seeking Proper Diagnosis
6:02 – Importance of Courage in Empathy
6:26 – Managing Overwhelm with Breaks
6:54 – Developing Polite Workarounds
7:03 – The Power of Apologies
7:40 – Understanding EMD 5 Empaths
8:14 – Becoming a Radiant Empathy Angel
9:01 – Steps to Achieve Radiant Empathy
9:58 – Invitation to the After Party

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

➡️ Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook

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➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships: A Comprehensive Resource Preview