Author: Kathy Marshack

Not all NeuroDivergent Relationships are destructive, but in my personal experience, there’s a high percentage of destructive interactions that take place.

But, if you have Radiant Empathy and a strong moral code, you can stand up for yourself without harming others.

Join me for this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships entitled, “The Dark Side of “Asperger’s,” and we’ll talk about how to cope.

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1:00 The dark side of Asperger’s
1:23 Moving on is not the answer
3:04 How to cope: develop radiant empathy and have a strong moral code
4:12 A quote from Sun Tzu, a famous Chinese author
4:51 It takes courage to do the right thing
5:18 I had a warning in a dream
11:52 I will never be able to move on
12:20 I can take heart in helping others in ND Relationships
14:07 Stand up, speak out, and talk back

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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This podcast episode is a walk down memory lane with my two daughters and the beautiful beginning of our lives together.

Thank you to my daughters for helping your mother achieve the impossible goal of feeling joy again.

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1:07 Remembering the Joy
1:39 My daughter, Phoebe’s, birthday
3:29 One of the beautiful moments in my life
5:28 Choosing our new daughter’s name
7:11 Bianca as a child
9:04 Meeting Phoebe for the first time
10:35 The memories

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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To move past the miscommunication in your NeuroDivergent relationship, you must first eliminate your anger towards your partner and towards yourself. For this to happen, you need to understand that your NeuroDiverse loved one has a different operating system than you.

Join Dr. Kathy’s in today’s episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships to hear her share about her tools to achieve better communication in your relationship.

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1:03 What’s the Point of Trying to communicate in a neurodivergent relationship?
1:32 What’s the goal of improving communication?
3:21 Use the 7-step interface protocol to eliminate your anger
4:41 Peel back the layers of disinformation and discontent
6:34 A dream that guided me
11:01 Stop holding yourself back

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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Empathy is much more than sensitivity, much more than words. Join us for today’s podcast episode as Dr. Kathy discusses the 15 years of controversy she has faced since the first edition of her book, “Life with a Spouse or Partner with Asperger Syndrome—Going Over the Edge?” was published, and despite the controversy, how much this book has helped those in NeuroDiverse relationships.

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1:05 Fifteen Years of Controversy
1:17 A Quote fron Lebron James
5:11 The truth has a way of being consistent
8:38 Use the diagnosis to light the way
13:01 Empathy is more than kind words
16:08 Polite and honest controversy leads to healing
20:19 Thank goodness for 15 years of controversy

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Dr. Kathy’s FREE Mini-Course

We can look at the communication between a ND and NT as a dance, except that each one is doing a completely different dance.

However, if we stay openminded and curious, we can start to understand the other person’s language a bit more each day.

Join us for this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships where Dr. Kathy breaks down how you can begin to rebuild the bridge in your NeuroDivergent Relationship through communication.

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1:18 What is a dialectic?
2:52 Stay curious and openminded
4:31 Communication between ND and NT
5:40 Look at the problem from the dialectic

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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Alice Walker wrote, “Healing begins where the wound was made.” Even in your grief, remember that Love is your super power.

Join us for this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships where Dr. Kathy recalls the story of how her and her ex-husband met and delves into the intricacies of their relationship and everything she’s learned from the experience.

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1:19 Love in an antidote to terror
2:45 Falling in Love with Howard
8:23 Sweet moments – few and far between
11:40 The children drove us apart
14:29 Love is a conversation, not a transaction
17:16 I failed Howard
22:05 Healing the wound

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome (ASD): Going over the Edge? Anniversary Edition”

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➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Dr. Kathy’s FREE Mini-Course

Being empathic isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be unless you can learn to be brave.

If you don’t use empathy to make things better then it becomes empathy dysfunction. You have to train yourself to always show up!

Join us for this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships where Dr. Kathy discusses the different sides of the Map of Empathy Territory and how you can bridge that gap.

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1:02 It takes courage to be empathic
2:29 Looking into my map of empathy territory
7:41 The 7 step interface protocol can bridge the gap between empathy triad sensitive and empathy triad blind
9:39 What is a radiant empathy angel
12:06 The Jewish Pilgrimage and the lessons we can learn from it
18:04 Make the world a better place by showing up

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Empathy is More Than Words: Introducing Groundbreaking Tools for NeuroDivergent Relationships” 

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“It never occurred to me that he drank to cope with my mother, but I suspect that is true.”

Autism is a primary disorder that needs to be diagnosed in order to save relationships, children, and families.

Listen as Dr. Kathy recalls memories from her childhood of about different members of her family, her relationship with them, and what happens when alcoholism meets Autism.

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1:12 Adult children of alcoholics- an email from my cousin
3:18 When survivor children marry
7:14 Parenting is about creating memories
11:26 So what about the drinking?
13:50 When a NeuroTypical parent is not enough
16:56 Get a diagnosis to free your family

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Empathy is More Than Words: Introducing Groundbreaking Tools for NeuroDivergent Relationships” 

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What do you do when you’re met with resistance to an Autism diagnoses?

Join us today as Dr. Kathy recalls memories of her Uncle Ed and how she first discovered Autism in her own family tree.

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1:12 About my Uncle Ed
3:51 When Uncle Ed passed away
5:06 Discovering Autism in my family tree
7:23 Getting past family resistance to the diagnosis
11:43 Facing the tragedy of untreated Autism
13:03 Time to rewrite your family legacy

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Empathy is More Than Words: Introducing Groundbreaking Tools for NeuroDivergent Relationships” 

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➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Dr. Kathy’s FREE Mini-Course

You’re the only one who can truly know what your duty is.

Join us for today’s episode as Dr. Kathy shares with us one of her experiences with extended family that taught her an important lesson that she still uses today.

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1:06 My dream
2:51 My email
5:13 Their responses
5:49 More emails four years later
7:42 What’s my duty now?
8:45 Only you can know your duty

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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Empathy is More Than Words: Introducing Groundbreaking Tools for NeuroDivergent Relationships” 

➡️ Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook

➡️ Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here

➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Dr. Kathy’s FREE Mini-Course