When They Use Your Children Against You

When They Use Your Children Against You

What happens when the people trying to hurt you use your own children as their weapon?

Parental alienation is one of the most devastating experiences a parent can endure; it’s a loss that feels like your children are gone while they are still alive. In this episode, Dr. Marshack shares the raw and painful reality of her own divorce, where Howard’s smear campaign convinced her daughters that their mother was the enemy.

She recounts the chilling moment her daughter Phoebe returned to an abusive relationship, and how the alienator’s community reinforced the lies to keep her isolated.

You will learn why the harder you fight for the truth, the more children may pull away, and how to find the resilience to carry on. This is an episode for anyone needing to hear the truth: Your worth is not defined by their rejection.

Want to skip ahead? Episode Highlights

[00:43] When they use your children against you.
[01:47] The weaponization of children: How narcissists maintain control through lies.
[02:49] Why the harder you try to show proof, the more they pull away.
[04:00] The chilling story of Phoebe, an abusive boyfriend, and a mother’s terror.
[04:58] When the abuser’s family protects the son and smears the mother.
[06:00] Finding peace in letting go: Can you live a full life anyway?
[06:21] A message to alienated parents: Your rejection does not erase your love.
[07:01] Taking your own story back and rising to the level of Radiant Empathy.


Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus.

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