You may be surprised to learn that you are a hypocrite.
Especially if you are a “fixer.” Even though you may have good intentions – if you’re not moderating those intentions with what is best for the other person – it might make you hypocritical.
Whether you choose to stay or leave the people you’re used to fixing, there is really only one solution: be your authentic self at all times.
You are a gift to the world, just as you are. Allowing your NeuroDiverse loved ones to express their true selves, too, might produce a miracle.
Want to skip ahead? Episode Highlights
1:05 Does trying to make your NeuroDiverse loved one make you a hypocrite?
2:55 Being empathic can be just as dysfunctional as the NeuroDiverse
3:27 There’s a fine line between hypocrisy and helping
4:48 How do I stand up if I don’t speak up?
5:32 If you’re a fixer, you might be a hypocrite
7:54 I stopped trying to fix my NeuroDiverse loved one
8:56 There is no easy answer to leaving the fixing hypocrisy behind
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